rawmacias, wavelength, JonUrban, J. PUPSTER, thank you so much for the warm welcome! And many others who gave me "likes" and "love"... I feel like I've got a humongous group hug. You guys are so nice and awesome.
I am so glad to find this community.
rawmacias: You are so right. We do hear sounds from back in real world, too. I can use this to lecture them next time
Thank you for suggestions for hardware, too. I really didn't want to bother all with newbie questions but I think you guys knows so much better than hifi sales persons.
wavelength: You had same experiences, too? Thank you for sharing that! Because It really helps me to feel better to know that.
JonUrban: Yep, SW song
thank you so much your therapeutic words. You are dead-on on"belittled and shamed" is how I felt. And different-animal is good analogy. This gives me an idea to lecture them with "when native Americans saw Columbus's ship..."
J. PUPSTER: Exactly! I started off with Steven but now I am hunting down other surround music with QQ forum Polls. Thank you for encouraging to ask questions, too.
Again, my deepest appreciation for all of you