Wishing a bunch of happy dancing Snood bananas!
At a time when all I read about in the news is about one mans inhumanity to other people and I end up feeling appalled and low. I then read your post and your humanity & dedication shines through it all. It is immensely hard & stressful to do what you are doing without any support (there were 4 of us to help our Mum), your Mom will appreciate all you are doing.Thank you every one for the well wishes and support
Things got a ton worse today
mom supposedly had a yeast UTI infection and then was referred to an Infectious Disease for IV Vocoratazole dr by her nurse prac urologist........infectious disease doc said umm I want a different urine test to be sure so I got it Monday - but while at the office doc started her on voriconazole - Friday she started seeing some weird ****.....Saturday was ok but still saw stuff - she woke me at 330 to go to the bathroom she was cracking jokes and was fine.......Sunday morning she wakes me up like 8am will the ding dong button and is like nuts seeing **** and batty - Monday weird but was the best day with her in a long while, I was like wow this stuff is working finally, but then stuff started getting real weird Tuesday then today was just out of control seeing lots of people, could not get food in mouth would hit her chin, she was getting no sleep for like 2 days and having full on auditory and verbal conversations laughing and responding.........I had to go see a lawyer to do a will today and one of her friends sat with her - I was having trouble getting her in her wheelchair and chair in the porch........come back and frined says she could not navigate a donut to her mouth and i am like wtf. Made her a sandwich and yep I was like freaking still am............called both reg doc and infectious disease doc and infect said the urine test on monday came back negative for UTI and yes do not take any more of the meds because that might be what is causing the symptom because they are known side effects.........if they do not subside then ER which would kill my mom mentally - doc says well bring her in for blood test - i am like i cant hardly get her up to get out of a chair let alone get her in a car, so they suggested mobile lab - i asked does medicare or tricare cover it - they did not know - then wanted to schedule a 950 online app with nurse prac i never had heard of saying it might be a long session - i am thinking they are going to try to sell my mom into assisted living since her docs group owns a shitload.....they were pushing ER a bit, but i was like well it is not sepsis of UTI like you thought because the labs came back neg and infectious doc says get her off the meds and things might get better..........think I am going to go that route and hope for the best......she did not get any sleep for like 2 nights and days with the visions having conversations - I got her inside in the wheelchair with the help of a neighbor and she wanted to sit by my fireplace i set up with lights that make it look like a fire is going.......I go out to talk to my neighbor come back in and she is finally sleeping......tip toes for the last hour and half hoping she gets a few more hours
I am spent - i am just sitting her trying to be quiet in my room hoping she gets a few hours sleep or more - I so do not want her to have to go into assisted living - i want her to come back - she knows who I am still but it is very wonky. I can not stop crying
I am so sorry. Try to take just one day at a time and care for yourself.Thank you every one for the well wishes and support
Things got a ton worse today
mom supposedly had a yeast UTI infection and then was referred to an Infectious Disease for IV Vocoratazole dr by her nurse prac urologist........infectious disease doc said umm I want a different urine test to be sure so I got it Monday - but while at the office doc started her on voriconazole - Friday she started seeing some weird ****.....Saturday was ok but still saw stuff - she woke me at 330 to go to the bathroom she was cracking jokes and was fine.......Sunday morning she wakes me up like 8am will the ding dong button and is like nuts seeing **** and batty - Monday weird but was the best day with her in a long while, I was like wow this stuff is working finally, but then stuff started getting real weird Tuesday then today was just out of control seeing lots of people, could not get food in mouth would hit her chin, she was getting no sleep for like 2 days and having full on auditory and verbal conversations laughing and responding.........I had to go see a lawyer to do a will today and one of her friends sat with her - I was having trouble getting her in her wheelchair and chair in the porch........come back and frined says she could not navigate a donut to her mouth and i am like wtf. Made her a sandwich and yep I was like freaking still am............called both reg doc and infectious disease doc and infect said the urine test on monday came back negative for UTI and yes do not take any more of the meds because that might be what is causing the symptom because they are known side effects.........if they do not subside then ER which would kill my mom mentally - doc says well bring her in for blood test - i am like i cant hardly get her up to get out of a chair let alone get her in a car, so they suggested mobile lab - i asked does medicare or tricare cover it - they did not know - then wanted to schedule a 950 online app with nurse prac i never had heard of saying it might be a long session - i am thinking they are going to try to sell my mom into assisted living since her docs group owns a shitload.....they were pushing ER a bit, but i was like well it is not sepsis of UTI like you thought because the labs came back neg and infectious doc says get her off the meds and things might get better..........think I am going to go that route and hope for the best......she did not get any sleep for like 2 nights and days with the visions having conversations - I got her inside in the wheelchair with the help of a neighbor and she wanted to sit by my fireplace i set up with lights that make it look like a fire is going.......I go out to talk to my neighbor come back in and she is finally sleeping......tip toes for the last hour and half hoping she gets a few more hours
I am spent - i am just sitting her trying to be quiet in my room hoping she gets a few hours sleep or more - I so do not want her to have to go into assisted living - i want her to come back - she knows who I am still but it is very wonky. I can not stop crying
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