I can only speak for me. I had no love for Disco, and was happy when it went away. But it had nothing to do with race or gender in the least. It was starting to gradually creep into my rock landscape, and my teenage sensibilities resented that. Besides, I wasn't a good dancer.
Yeah, my issue with it at the time was that it seemed like it just took over. I mean, LITERALLY in some cases: What was at the time the last reasonably underground radio station in my home town went disco. Everything was disco this and disco that and there was just no effing
escape. I mean, MCA called Laserdisc "DiscoVision"!
It always struck me as somewhat aggressively, insecurely, overcompensatingly heterosexual, so I was surprised to learn decades later just how many gay people were involved in the music. Possibly related, someone falsely attributed anti-gay quotes to Donna Summer, who then had to go out of her way to disavow them.
In David Bowman's (yes,
2001 fans, that was really his name) book about the Talking Heads, there's a passage where David Byrne talks about anti-disco sentiment and how, in his opinion, it always seemed like a cover for having an issue with black or gay people. I was hoping to find the exact quote, but there's no entry for "Disco" in the book's index.
(I know, I'm contributing to the topic drift. It's just an interesting subject to me because I remember the era, remember my antipathy toward it but now that I'm no longer being force-fed I find that I actually enjoy it.)