Who in your family influenced your love of music?

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Mom liked music too but... deep down inside I couldn't forgive her for cleaning out my bedroom while I traveled the US for 4 months right out of high school. I came home from my travels to their new house. Mom thought I never listened to 45's anymore and threw out my ENTIRE collection (100's and many won from radio contests). Oldsters will remember the Beatles, Elvis and other's 45's came in cardboard full color covers like albums back in the day. Beautiful (and so collectable). Mom, I guess I will forgive you.
Those 78s I mentioned that were lost “in a move” - my mom gave them to a neighbor kid and didn’t tell me. Scarred for life, I was.
 
My grandfather. I was always very fond of my grandparents so a visit to them was something to enjoy. I recall going around the age of it must been between 2 and 4, to their house. I was very young, and I would sit on the edge of their bed and ask him to put song I liked. That song in particular was Rhapsody in Blue (either full length or harmonica Glory of Gershwin Larry Adler, I think what he put on varied from time to time. I love both.). I tended to respond specifically to that and to a lesser extent the 1812 overture and wanted to hear them over and over and again (especially the cannons).

So I tribute my interest in music to my grandfather. It is a memory I hold dear.

Later exploration would have been when driving back from long road trips where my father may have picked me up from a camping thing I did with other people my age and he would put a CD in the car. His taste tended to be best of or mixes by decade. I hit upon a few that I really liked and explore that artist in particular in an era that was easier to do so growing up when I did. it allowed me to find some favorites and run with it so both are really responsible.
 
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Nobody in my family influenced, or encouraged, my love of music that I can remember. My father died when I was 10. I've since heard that he was a big jazz fan and saw lots of cool people like Charlie Parker, Duke Ellington, etc, back in the 40's/50's but by the time I came around, he was gone a lot and there was no records in the house that would indicate that.

I basically got into music on my own. First to try to fit in as an awkward kid, then later as a way to rebel and to help define myself, and finally as essentially a way of life. From my late teens to present day late 60's, it's been an obsession much of the time. It's been a life line for me in so many ways. I"m happy to say I did marry somebody who shares that passion, and we have passed it on to our daughter who does as well.
 
I don't think my parents had much influence on my musical tastes. They had a Zenith console in the living room with just a few albums. It was one of those with the "phantom third channel" (which, when you played that demo record, the phrase was always belted out with a big voice and lots of reverb.)

Oddly enough, looking back on those few records, Andy Williams, Dean Martin and Mitch Miller - to name a few I vaguely remember, they had some Enoch Light! This was at the time when stereo was just getting big so they were stereo versions. I actually liked one album so much that, when I got back to collecting audio in around 2019, I made sure to go out and find this record. Cheesey and yet I love it. And, because the stereo is SO pronounced on this record, it sounds really cool through a QS style decoder.
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The next person to actually influence me was my Uncle's (he was only 6 years older than me) wife's brother. I was such a nerd and Richie was such a cool dude. Despite being something like 7 feet tall, he drove this tiny Opel sports car. He could barely get in it.

I think the year was 1973ish (me, about 14 years old) and at that time I only owned one record. The Monkees Headquarters. That was, of course , because I watched the TV show every week. Richie played Dark Side of the Moon for me. I was blown away! The ticking clocks on Time just enamored me. I HAD to buy it. Of course, Money was played on the radio at the time, so that helped my soon-to-be addiction. It was around this time I decided I wanted to be a DJ.

...and that's what I did. And, of course, once in radio, I had nearly free access to all kinds of records and music.
 
I suppose the biggest musical influence on me was my parents, though to this day (I'm about three months shy of 66) I'm not entirely sure whether I care more about the music itself or the particulars of its reproduction.

I loved my mother's circa 1954 Voice of Music changer and constantly played records on it, but I was at least as fascinated by the record player itself as I was by the music.

My mother had been a Columbia Record Club member in the 1950s, though I think that was probably one of the first things to get sacrificed after I infested her womb. Either that, or my father just nagged her into cancelling. But by that point she had dozens of LPs, pretty much entirely easy listening and classical, so for the first few years of my life, that's all I ever listened to. I don't remember having any other music specifically forbidden or withheld from me, but for the most part, if they turned on the radio it was either an easy listening station or KFBK 92.5 FM, which I specifically mention because I'm sure one or two others here have memories of it.

She also had a collection of 78s, some of which my pack rat-averse father forced her to give away along with at least three 45s that I can remember being around when I was tiny but haven't seen a trace of in close to 60 years. The 78s that survived have all been carefully digitized.

Family legend says that a teacher once asked me what my favorite song was and I said it was Handel's Water Music (specifically the Eduard van Beinum/Concertgebouw orchestra version on Epic, not that I would have gone into that level of detail at the time). The story goes that the teacher thought that was weird enough to mention to my parents. Whatever.

I can remember other kids in school making references to popular songs of the day, but I had no clue that's what they were doing. I specifically remember mentions of "the little old lady from Pasadena," what I now know was "The Name Game" and whatever the song was that included "Three six nine, the monkey drank wine" but to me that was just some random interesting (to a six year old!) thing kids were saying. In fact, I think I was north of 50 when I learned that "three six nine" was used in a song.

At some point I was given a little tabletop AM-only tube radio and explored a bit more on my own. I somewhat remember going through a country phase ("KRAK radio, eleven four-oh!") around the time "Little Arrows" and "Big Daddy's Alabammy Bound" were getting played. And probably "I've Been Everywhere, Man."

I never completely lost interest in classical music, though for a time I was pretty dismissive of easy listening. Certainly by the late sixties I had discovered AM rock radio and by the mid-seventies had become absolutely addicted to "underground" FM rock radio, specifically KZAP 98.5. I can remember a time when the Beatles were my favorite act, though at some point I became more obsessed with Elton John and then, after realizing that three songs I used to hear all the time on KZAP were from The Dark Side of the Moon, I took the bus to buy the album in the summer of 1974 and within a few years had become an incurable Pink Floyd fanatic. To the extent that I still have anyone that might be called My Favorite, it's still them.

But along with the music, I was also obsessed with sound quality and preferred reels to records, FM to AM, etc. I thought (and still think) that CDs were the greatest advance in home music reproduction ever. In fact, when people first started murmuring about putting their CDs on hard disk, I thought it was the stupidest idea I'd ever heard. I mean, CDs were already perfect the way they were, and hard drives were small and expensive, so why the hell would I want to use a computer to play back music?

Skip ahead 20 or so years and I started dipping my toe into the world of playback from hard drive, eventually acquiring several Logitech Squeezeboxes, when then developed into an all-consuming obsession with getting my entire CD library online. I was still years away from retirement, working full time and had a library of well over 1,000 discs, but once I started I couldn't stop until I'd finished. Took me about 18 months overall, so you'd better believe I have an extremely robust backup routine!

I still enjoy just about every type of music that I ever enjoyed (well, maybe not kiddie records so much), but I'm also at the very least equally obsessed with the playback technology. And also obsessed with the fact that tags in FLAC files can be used to store an enormous amount of information about the recordings. In fact, now that LMS includes the ability to read WORK tags, I'm going back and adding them all my classical files.

When my mother died I took the only stuff of hers that I ever wanted: The record collection. I've digitized some of my childhood favorites, even going so far as to find replacement copies when the originals were too damaged by either her casual treatment or, far my likely, my stupid little child fingers.

As far as I can tell, to this day my father only voluntarily listens to classical music, though he was never much of a collector. In fact, about a year ago he gave me his entire CD library, which was only about 25 or so albums. Of course, I immediately sucked all the bits into the computer!

So I guess my mother started my obsession with music + technology, both parents got me interested in classical and AM and FM radio exposed me to a ton of things I'd never previously been aware of.
 
My uncle.

The played to me (what I can remember today):
-Pink Floyd (Relics, Animals)
-Meat Loaf - Bat out of Hell
-Manfred Mann's Earth Band
-Chicago
-Genesis (Seconds Out, And Then There Were Three)
-The Who - Quadrophenia
-Nektar (Remember The Future I think it was)
-Omega (Gammapolis)
-German "Krautrock" like: Eloy, Kraftwerk, Ashra, Michael Rother, probably Tangerine Dream

-The Beatles have always been around me

So this is where my musical DNA comes from ! :cool:
All of those records I still like today.
 
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